In the novel The Circle of Karma, Dechen Choki says,
“Our stories are so similar yet so different. Everything happened because we
are women. You loved man and suffered and I hated man and suffered.” Comment on
the socio – cultural concerns, beliefs or values that are explored in the
novel.
Women in the world, as
early as in the Victorian period, suffered male dominance. They were finically
and sexually disadvantaged where they had to endure discrimination within their
marriage and society. Bhutanese women as well were in the same shoe as
Victorian women. It is evident in the novel, “The circle of Karma” by Kuenzang
Choden. Dechen Choki says, “Our stories are so similar yet so different.
Everything happened because we are women. You loved a man and suffered. I hated
a man and suffered.” Hence, in the novel, women face three major socio-cultural
challenges as women. These are abusive language, patriarchy and sexual
objectification of women. Therefore, women in Bhutan suffered gender
discrimination in a society which is mostly explored in the novel.
Abusive use of language
against women is one of the socio-cultural challenges explored in the novel
among women. In the novel, abusive languages are used against Dechen Choki and
Tshomo. Rajendran (2016) asserts that the most common way to abuse women is to
call her a “whore”, “slut” or “bitch.” Similarly, such phrases are used against
Tshomo and Dechen Choki. For instance,
Dechen was called whore and husband stealer by Lhajab’s wife. In Tshomo’s case,
Wangchen said, “You stubborn, low down moringmo” (Choden, 2005) . Such phrases used
against women clearly give a picture of women’s moral humiliation in a society.
Thus, women’s discrimination was present in the words and phrases used in
everyday language which have affected them to go parallel with their
counterpart in the society.
Patriarchy is another
socio-cultural challenge explored among women in The Circle of Karma. Tshomo suffers as a woman in a patriarchal
society. Feminist theorist (as stated in
Wikipedia, n,d) argues that patriarchy
is the primary cause of women oppression. As mentioned, it holds true for
Tshomo in the novel. For example, she
says, “Being a girl was equal to being in a bad situation” (Choden, 2005) . This is because she was deprived of
religious education rather her father said, “You are a girl. You are different.
..Learn to cook, weave and all those things.” (Choden, 2005) .This says about women being oppressed
under male dominance where society sets certain convention for women. In
another words, man should take in charge of all the matters beyond domestic
sphere while women should take care of domestic matters. Hence, women suffered because they were women
under male dominance.
Sexual
objectification of women is explored as one of the socio-cultural concerns in
the novel. Sexual objectification is
“the act of treating a person as a mere object of sexual desire” (Wikipedia,
n.d). In the novel, Dechen Choki and Tshomo experience this feeling of
objectification. For example, Dechen Choki says, “Our stories are so similar
yet so different. Everything happened because we are women. You loved a man and
suffered. I hated a man and suffered.” (Choden, 2005) . Both the character
suffered because of men for different reasons. However, they suffered anyways
because they were women. Dechen Choki ran away from home to escape her step
father who sexually desired her, only to be raped by Lajab. Tshomo, on the
other hand, escaped home feeling rejected by Wangchen whose lust grew for
Kezang, Tshomo’s sister, when he felt bored with Tshomo. These clearly show
that women were merely depicted as a sexual object, desired for sexual
pleasure only. Therefore, women suffered being treated as an object of sensual
pleasure by men.
In conclusion, women
suffered because they were women. They
were under the influence of male dominance where they were not given equal
priority as men. For instance, education was only reserved for men while women
were given the responsibility of cooking and weaving at home. Next, abusive language use against women is
one socio cultural concern which is in everyday language. Phrases such as “whore” and “moringmo”
undermine women capability in the society. Lastly, women are considered like an
object. They are desired only for sensual pleasure by men. These caused them
problem to grow parallel to their counterpart.
Therefore, women suffered gender inequality which is displayed in “The
Circle of Karma” by Aum Kuezang Choden.
Choden, K. (2005). The Circle of Karma . New
Delhi: Penguin Books Ltd.
Rajendran, S. (2016, November
19). verbal abuse: why are cuss words directed at men about the
women in their life? Retrieved May 23, 2019, from http://thenewsminute.com
Wikipedia. (n.d). Patriarchy .
Retrieved May 23, 2019, from http://en.m.wikipedia.org
wikipedia. (n.d). Sexual
Objectification . Retrieved May 21, 2019, from http://en.m.wikipedia. org.
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